The time we live in, ironically, makes it harder than it was for the early church to be connected. Technology and the pace of life has made us able to stay more isolated. In some ways it may connect us more, but in other ways it also gives us an easy out and escape from real relationship, being known, and knowing others.
But the roadblock of technology is welcomed for many because it helps guard from another major roadblock, which is the fear of the vulnerability that comes with being part of a Gospel Community.
Discipleship and sanctification are far less like microwaves and far more like a
slow cooker. Discipleship, sanctification, relationships, and life in the body are inefficient; slow, winding paths that lead towards our growth in righteousness.
As we draw up the blueprints for our trellis, we must always keep in mind that the goal is never to have an incredible trellis to admire and show off. The goal is always to see vibrant Vine growth that allows us to abide in the Vine. We want to enjoy Jesus. We want to love Him more deeply and love those He has given to us.
“Covenant” isn’t a word we often use in our relationships, but a covenant is what frames up God’s relationship with His people. It is a commitment built up on relationship, which is why we call it the “covenant of marriage.” It is not simply a contract or formal business agreement, but a relational commitment on both sides for mutual benefit. On our own, we don’t live lives that are perfectly integrated...lives in covenant relationship. We all fall short, each one of us, every day. But this is the miracle of rebirth: When we are born again, we are regenerated, and when we are regenerated, we are integrated. When we are hidden in Christ, we are integrated into His righteousness, His character, and His perfection and purity. We now walk by faith in confidence that we are in Him.